Basic Rights Oregon (BRO) coming to Pendleton August 13, 2008! August 3rd, 2008

On Wednesday evening, August 13, 2008,  PFLAG Pendleton will have an opprotunity to meet with Jeana Frazzini, Executive Director  and Kyndall Mason (new public ed. Coordinator) of Basic Rights Oregon. Jeana and Kyndall will be in Pendleton to meet with the East Oregonian Editorial Board on Wednedsay. An informal get together has been planned for Great Pacific Wine Company at 6 PM.  This will be a no-host dinner possibly featuring GP’s amazing Pizza!!!! Lonnie and Vickie will also present the beautiful Mid-Columbia Rainbow Award to the PFLAG Chapter. The beautiful triangle represents PFLAG Pendleton’s hard work and dedication to support, advocacy and education in the Mid-Columbia region. We will also plan our September kick-off Barbeque tentatively set for September 20, 2008.  Please plan to spend the evening with PFLAG Pendleton and Basic Rights Oregon. There will be lots of good food and good fun!!!!

Also at Great Pacific Wine Company at 8 PM on August 13, 2008 Democratic Senator Kate Brown, a strong GLBTQ ally will be meeting with local community members to discuss her concerns and campaign for Secretary of State in the 2008 election. This is not a PFLAG Pendleton sponsored event but folks may want to put on their concerned community member hat and attend her get together.

PFLAG Pendleton awarded Pride Foundation Rainbow Award July 17th, 2008

PFLAG Pendleton has received word that on Friday, July 18th they will be recognized along with Becky Mares of Yakima Washington, Gary Wolfer of Prossor Washington and Vista Youth Center of Kennewick Washington  as recipients of the first ever Mid Columbia Rainbow Award.  The reception will be held at Columbia Basin College, Gjerde Center, H Building at 7 PM. PFLAG Pendleton will receive a stipend of $100 and a plaque commemorating the achievement.

Pride Foundation’s mission is to connect, inspire and strengthen the Pacific Northwest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community in pursuit of equality. Pride Foundation accomplishes this in rural and urban areas by awarding grants and scholarships and cultivating leaders.

National PFLAG, Oregon State Council and PFLAG Pendleton’s mission is to promote the equality and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons, their families and friends through:

  • Support to cope with an adverse society
  • Education to enlighten an ill-informed public
  •  Advocacy to end discrimination and secure equal civil rights.

PFLAG provides opportunity for dialogue about sexual orientation, and acts to create a society that is healthy and respectful of human diversity. Keeping families together is the mision of PFLAG. Our family values stress education, understanding, acceptance, and support, but most of all love, thereby empowering our children - straight and gay - to lead happy and productive lives.

PFLAG Pendleton will not meet in July or August! July 17th, 2008

PFLAG Pendleton had a busy and productive year. With several editorials, candlelight vigils and a visit from the Basic Right Oregon Executive Director, Jeanna Frazzini we celebrated in the passage of the Domestic Partnership bill and the Anti-Discrimination bill.  We also particiapated in Blue Mountain Community College’s Arts and Cultural Fair for a second year and supported Pendleton High School in its first ever observation of the Day of Silence. Our new meeting place (Rooster’s Restaurant) has been a comfortable and welcoming place for us to meet. 

PFLAG Pendleton will begin meeting again in September probably after the conclusion of the Pendleton Round-Up.  Once again we will kick off our year with a Round-Up BBQ. Please plan to attend. See you in September!

PFLAG Pendleton Monthly Meeting 6-1-2008 at 5pm June 1st, 2008

Meeting Agenda:

  • What: PFLAG Pendleton June Agenda
  • Where: Lonnie & Vickie’s Home
  • When: June 1st 2008, 4 PM BBQ, 5 ish Meeting

Meeting Details

  • PFLAG moments:
  • Day of Silence Update
  • Support Issues: ??
  • BMCC GSA/DOS Update
  • BMCC Garrett Lee Smith Grant Update
  • PFLAG-Pendleton Website information
  • PROGRAM - Under Pressure - Video for New PFLAG Parents and experience the Washington DC Pride Parade
  • PHS National Day of Silence update
  • Portland Pride Parade - June 15th, Portland Oregon, go to http://www.pridenw.org/ for more information. PFLAG Pendleton will be in attendance and Tami & Amber are Vendors in the Festival! Please join us and support our own!
  • PFLAG Nationals is coming to town.  BREAKFAST with Nationals!  Monday June 16th, Roosters Restaurant please join PFLAG Pendleton for breakfast with Western Region Director - Kim Jones.  Great opportunity to share our growth and concerns

Day of Silence: planning meeting April 5th, 2008



On Friday, April 4 , 2008  a pre-planning meeting was held to see if students at Pendleton High School would be interested in participating in the National Day of Silence scheduled for April 25, 2008. With only one day’s notice and eight very active student organizers handing out invitations, thirty two students showed up to find out what they could do to help their high school become a more inclusive and safe environment for all students. It was a unanimous decision to particpate in the National Day of Silence and another meeting was set for April 10th to begin planning specific events. Two staff members  will help the students organize the PHS Day of Silence. On April 17th the Outreach Director from Oregon Safe Schools and Communities will be at Pendleton High School to present more infomation on how PHS students can reach out to other schools in the Eastern Oregon region and what students can do to help create safe schools and communities.

 Please read the information below to learn more about the National Day of Silence sponsored by GLSEN.

This year’s National Day of Silence will be held in memory of Lawrence King, a 15-year-old California student who was shot and killed at school in February by a 14-year-old classmate because of King’s sexual orientation and gender expression.
The Day of Silence is held by students every year to bring attention to anti-LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) name-calling, bullying and harassment. The senseless tragedy at E.O. Green Junior High in Oxnard, Calif., brings even more meaning to a day that has brought hope to millions of students.
Hundreds of thousands of students are expected to participate by taking some form of a vow of silence for the entire day or part of it. Their efforts will be supported by hundreds of community-based “Breaking the Silence” events at the end of the day. Together, concerned students will create a powerful call to action in order to prevent future tragedies.
Students hand out speaking cards during the Day of Silence that read:

Silent for Lawrence King:
Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I am participating in the Day of Silence (DOS), a national youth movement bringing attention to the silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies. My deliberate silence echoes that silence, which is caused by anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment. This year’s DOS is held in memory of Lawrence King, a 15 year-old student who was killed in school because of his sexual orientation and gender expression. I believe that ending the silence is the first step toward building awareness and making a commitment to address these injustices. Think about the voices you are not hearing today.”

There are simple steps that all schools can take to make schools safer for all students and to end the endemic name-calling and harassment that LGBT students and their allies face every day. We need to act now so that Lawrence King and the countless others who endure anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment will not be forgotten, and so that we can create an enduring legacy of safer schools for all in their names.

GLSEN’s 2005 National School Climate Survey found that four out of five LGBT students report verbal, sexual or physical harassment at school and 29% report missing at least a day of school in the past month out of fear for their personal safety. The Day of Silence is one way students and their allies are making anti-LGBT bullying, harassment and name-calling unacceptable in America’s schools.

About the Day of Silence
The Day of Silence, a project of GLSEN, is a nationwide, student-led event during which thousands of high schools and colleges bring attention to anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment in schools. For more information and a complete collection of organizing materials, visit www.dayofsilence.org.

Welcome to PFLAG Pendleton! March 26th, 2008

   We would like to welcome you to the newly developed website dedicated to the Pendleton Oregon chapter of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). Within this site you we be able to learn more about our chapter, keep informed of event schedules, review meeting times/notes, and keep up to date on local and national events. We will be adding features to the site over the next week so please be patient if you experience any technical difficulties.

   If you would like to submit a story or anything else of value please feel free to do so. It is a great way to make your voice heard! Thanks again and check back in the very near future for updates

PFLAG Pendleton April 6, 2008 Meeting information March 25th, 2008


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  • What: PFLAG Pendleton April Agenda
  • Where: Roosters Restaurant on Southgate
  • When: April 6th 2008, 4 PM no host late lunch, 5 PM business meeting begins

Meeting Details

  • PFLAG moments:
  • Domestic Partnership Update: Cards sent?
  • Support Issues: ??
  • Oregon Safe Schools: GSA grant for local club development
  • BMCC Garrett Lee Smith Suicide Grant update
  • PFLAG Pendleton Brochure Update
  • PROGRAM: GLBTQ - Cultural Competency Presentation (Powerpoint) If you have someone or if you are someone who  might be a first time attender this will be a great presentation to see. It has a tremendous amount of information that is both informative and important to know.
  • PROGRAM: Roberta: Review book “What the Bible Really says about Homosexuality
  • BMCC Arts and Cultural Festival Tabling Sign Up
  • PHS National Day of Silence update
  • PFLAG Pendleton Webpage discussion/evaluation